Specialist clinical hypnotherapy · 27 years · Online via Zoom
Men's sexual health: straightforward, confidential support.
Erectile difficulties, coming too quickly, difficulty reaching orgasm, and performance anxiety are far more common than most men admit. We work on the anxiety and automatic patterns behind them — privately, without awkwardness.
This sits inside my sex and relationships work. If you want the wider picture, or you're coming as a couple, start there.
Book a Free Consultation CallYou are not alone
Plenty of men go through this, and it is something we can work on together. The aim is to help you feel more confident and more relaxed, with a partner or on your own, without turning sex into another thing you have to get right.
Why work with me?
As a clinical hypnotherapist specialising in men's psychosexual health, I take a direct, human approach. I also teach this work to other therapists. We work on confidence, a sense of control, and feeling more relaxed with a partner. You should leave knowing what we're doing and why, not with a handful of vague reassurance.
Premature ejaculation affects approximately 1 in 3 men at some stage, making it one of the most common sexual concerns.
Common Issues I Can Help With:
- Erectile dysfunction (ED): If you're struggling to get an erection or keep one, we'll work on the anxiety and the habits that have built up around it. If this is new, or there's pain, please see your GP as well. Therapy can sit alongside a medical check. It doesn't replace one.
- Premature ejaculation (PE): Coming too quickly is common, and the dread of it happening again often becomes the bigger problem. I'll teach you ways to slow things down and take the panic out of the moment.
- Difficulty reaching orgasm (anorgasmia): If coming feels out of reach, on your own or with a partner, we'll look at what's getting in the way, without treating it as a failure of effort.
- Performance anxiety: When part of you is watching and marking the experience, sex stops being something you're in. We'll work on that spectator, so intimacy can feel like yours again rather than an exam.
- Body image and confidence: How you feel in your own skin shows up in bed. We'll work on the story you tell yourself about your body, so pleasure doesn't have to wait until you feel "ready".
- Anything else that feels hard to talk about: If it feels strange, private, or like something you haven't said out loud before, you're still in the right place. I've worked with a wide range of concerns over 27 years, and you don't have to have a tidy name for it before we start.
Performance anxiety is a leading cause of sexual difficulties, affecting up to 25% of men in intimate situations.
How I can help:
Clinical hypnotherapy comes first. I bring in other tools when they actually help the person in front of me, not as a menu you have to work through.
- Hypnotherapy: A lot of what goes wrong in the moment is automatic. Hypnotherapy helps settle the anxious patterns that kick in at the wrong time, without giving you another instruction to fail at.
- NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming): Useful when an old belief is running the show, the one that says you're the person this always happens to. We look at that story and build something more accurate.
- Parts therapy: Sometimes one part of you wants closeness and another part is braced for embarrassment. We work with both, so they stop pulling in opposite directions.
- Tailored to you: I don't run one method for everyone. We work out what fits your situation, and we review it as we go.
We start with a private, judgement-free conversation, by phone, WhatsApp, text, or email, whichever is easiest. You don't have to explain everything before we speak.
Sex gets easier when you stop watching yourself do it.
What we can work toward together
Everyone's situation is different, but therapy aims for practical shifts you can notice in daily life, not abstract promises. Typical focus areas include:
- Clearer communication with a partner about wants, limits, and anxiety, without shame taking over the conversation.
- More predictable control where premature ejaculation or “performance” spirals have been running the show.
- Less avoidance around intimacy after ED, health changes, or long gaps, and rebuilding confidence step by step.
- A calmer inner narrative about body image, ageing, or past experiences so pleasure feels safer to access again.
- A plan you understand. Techniques, homework where appropriate, and review points so progress feels grounded, not vague.
These are therapeutic aims discussed in session, not guaranteed medical outcomes. If something needs medical investigation, we signpost appropriately.
Men's Psychosexual Health FAQs
What does clinical hypnotherapy help with?
It can help with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, performance anxiety, anorgasmia, body image concerns, intimacy avoidance and sexual confidence.
Will my sessions be confidential?
Yes. Sessions are confidential and judgement-free, with standard legal and safeguarding exceptions.
Do I need to explain everything before booking?
No. It is enough to say that you would like a confidential conversation about men's sexual health. Use the contact page, WhatsApp, or call to arrange a private first conversation.