Clinical hypnotherapist · NCH Registered Supervisor · 25+ years · Anywhere in the World via Zoom
Straightforward, confidential help with your sex life and your relationship.
Whether desire has faded, sex has started to feel like a pressure test, or there's a conversation you keep putting off, you don't have to figure it out alone. I work with individuals and couples worldwide on Zoom — warm, practical clinical hypnotherapy with a specialism in men's sexual health.
How I can help
Most people come to me for one of these reasons. You can start on your own or as a couple, and you don't need to have everything worked out before we speak.
For individuals & couples
When intimacy has gone quiet, sex feels loaded with pressure, or you love each other but feel stuck in the same loop. Start on your own or together.
Men's sexual healthErections, control & confidence
Specialist, non-judgemental support for erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, difficulty reaching orgasm, and performance anxiety.
Anxiety & overthinkingGetting out of your head
When part of you is watching from the sidelines, worrying if things are going to work instead of actually being in the moment.
Communication & closenessHaving the conversation
Finding a way to talk honestly about what you want, what's changed, or why touch has stopped — without it turning into an argument.
For therapistsClinical supervision
NCH Registered Supervisor offering clear, grounded supervision for qualified hypnotherapists and therapists at £70 per session.
From £80Simple, upfront pricing
Single sessions are £80, or a block of four is £280. We start with a free consultation call so you can check if I'm the right fit first.
Nothing you bring to the room is going to shock me.
People often put off getting in touch because talking about sex or relationship problems feels awkward, or they worry their issue isn't "big enough". Once we start talking, the relief is usually immediate.
I'm Dante Harker, a clinical hypnotherapist with over 25 years' experience. Most of my practice is dedicated to helping individuals and couples sort out the patterns, worries, and silences that get in the way of a good sex life and a close relationship.
Therapy does not have to be heavy going.
People often expect therapy to be hard work from start to finish. Mine usually isn't. Sessions are warm and conversational. We laugh, we get curious, and we move at a pace that suits you.
Most people leave having found something genuinely interesting about how their own mind works, rather than feeling wrung out. Direct and human aren't opposites — I'll tell you what I think, we'll do real work, and it will mostly feel like a good conversation with someone who has been doing this for 25 years.
Working with the part of the mind that runs in the moment.
Most issues in bed aren't caused by a lack of tips or willpower. You can have a sensible conversation in daylight and still find that, at night, the old anxiety or automatic reflex kicks straight back in.
Clinical hypnotherapy lets us work directly with those automatic patterns — calming the nervous system, shifting old stories about yourself, and taking the performance pressure off. Where something physical or medical might be involved, I'll always point you toward your GP or a sexual health clinic alongside our work.
You do not need to explain everything in writing.
A first message only needs to be a line or two — or you can book a free initial call straight into my diary. We'll have a private, relaxed chat and see how I can help.
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Who do you work with, and what can you help with?
Individuals and couples, on sex and relationships. That includes men's sexual health: erection problems, coming too quickly, anxiety in bed. I also supervise qualified therapists, which is a separate thing.
Do I have to explain everything before we speak?
No. It is enough to say you would like a confidential conversation, with a few words about what's going on. We take it from there at a pace that suits you.
Is what I share confidential?
Yes. Sessions are confidential and judgement-free, with the standard legal and safeguarding exceptions described on the confidentiality page.
How do sessions work: in person, online, how often?
I work with clients worldwide online via Zoom. We usually start with a private first conversation by phone, WhatsApp, text or email, whichever feels most comfortable.
Ongoing sessions are usually online via Zoom, at a frequency agreed around your diary and what you are working on.
How much does therapy cost?
The first call is free. After that, a session is £80, or four sessions are £280. If you're a student or money is tight, ask. The detail is on the booking and prices page.
Are you an NCH Registered Supervisor?
Yes. I supervise qualified hypnotherapists and therapists, including people who are newly qualified. That's separate from the work above. Details are on the supervision page. I also teach therapists through Gold Leaf.
How do I get started?
Email, WhatsApp or phone for a private first conversation. Use the contact page or see booking and prices for fees and practicalities.
Client reviews
Real change, handled with care
Dante helped me navigate a very difficult period of burnout with practical strategies that actually worked. His approach is refreshingly direct and deeply supportive.
I finally feel like I have a handle on my anxiety after years of trying different therapists. The integrated approach Dante uses made all the difference for me.
The sessions on men's sexual health were handled with incredible sensitivity and professionalism. I feel much more confident and at peace with myself now.
What working with me is like
People often arrive unsure whether their problem is big enough, or worried they'll have to explain everything before they know if I'm the right person. You won't be judged, and you can start small. This is work I have done for over 25 years.
I am a registered clinical hypnotherapist (NCH) and an NCH Registered Supervisor. Most of the people I see now come about sex, intimacy, or their relationship, including men's sexual health. If anxiety, old patterns, or the way you talk to each other are part of it, we can work with those too.
My style is direct and human: plain language, clear next steps, and work that continues between sessions where that helps. If something needs medical investigation, I'll say so and point you in the right direction. This is therapeutic work, not a substitute for medical care.
Read a bit more about me, or who this approach suits, if that helps you decide.
Registered member of the National Council for Hypnotherapy (NCH). I am also an NCH Registered Supervisor.
You can say it badly. I've heard it before, and we'll take it from there.